Imagine having him all to yourself. Having him wrapped around your finger and ready to do whatever it takes to make you happy. Now get up and take action to stop his ex-girlfriend from snatching him away from you.

This is difficult to do when he has someone constantly competing with you for his attention. You should be the center of his world; after all, you are his girlfriend.

However, his ex-girlfriend is constantly on the lookout for the areas where you are lacking. She is more than willing to swiftly fill them up for you.

This girl is making your life difficult.  It has become her personal mission to get back with your boyfriend. Doubts run through your mind, does he still love her? Am I just a rebound to him?

Well stop sulking and take action. This girl has declared war and you need to show her what kind of warrior you are.

No more room for playing nice, it is time you start throwing your hands back. Show her who the Queen of the sand pit is. Keep your boyfriend where he belongs, with you.

RESEARCH YOUR RIVAL

What exactly did your boyfriend see in this girl? And most importantly, what made him leave this girl?

Do some investigating to understand your enemy. This will inform you on how far she is willing to take on this competition.

This is bad but for the sake of this way you’re going to stalk her social media. Find out what people are saying about her. Find out as much as you can about her since every little detail counts in this battle.

Identify her weaknesses and her strengths then find a way of using it against her to leave your boyfriend alone.

BE SUBTLE

No one needs to know that you are at war with this girl. Do not bad mouth her or show her any contempt.  Mostly in public, don’t show your intentions.

When you meet her be as kind as you can be. Let her question how she could hate such a lovely girl.

Eliminate any form of jealousy on your part. Avoid showing your boyfriend how threatened you feel. Pretend like you do not know that those midnight calls are from her.

If this girl contacts you acting distastefully do not reply. Girl, carry yourself like nothing could tilt your crown.

SOLIDIFY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR MAN

If the foundation is weak the structure will quickly tremble. Work hard at building a strong bond with your boyfriend. Be his happiness keeper, his emotional outlet, his friend, his Queen and his lover.

Become the center where his life revolves around. Be there when he needs you the most, go to him when you suspect that he is feeling down. Compliment his achievements and let him know that you appreciate him.

Make sure that he cannot do anything without wondering how much fun it would be if he did it with you.

TIME TO REPLY TO THE GIRL

Some girls are genuinely crazy when they are in love. Even though your boyfriend may let her know that she stands no chance she may still hold on to some hope and continue causing disorder in your relationship.

This is the time when you mark your territory. Talk to her woman to woman, tell her that her behavior is distasteful and she should carry herself better.

Tell her to invest her time looking for someone who will be willing to reciprocate her love. Do not make any forms of threats because this will only hammer you down to her level.

Keep the conversation short and straight to the point and once you have made your point do not elaborate, just stop replying.

FINAL WORDS

This girl will not feel sorry for you so you shouldn’t either. Focus on the prize, your boyfriend and do whatever it takes to win him out of the claws of his ex.