Convince your spouse to fight for your marriage. Make your spouse give your marriage another chance to stand the test of time.
Marriage is beautiful but fragile. It can easily suffer so it requires effort from both parties.
In the case of marriage, the grass is not greener on the other side. The grass is greener where it is watered and nurtured. Failure to invest in your marriage may result in its downfall.
Life can get in the way of what is important in life. We often lose sight of the simple things that hold us together and hence fail to appreciate them.
Marriage is one of such things. It is rosy in the beginning and one simply gives in to the temptation of letting her marriage take care of itself.
Anyway, you’re here because your marriage is under stress. Your husband or wife has either filed for divorce or is threatening to do so.
Then I guarantee you that if you follow these simple steps you can claim back his or her love and commitment. So here is how you can save your marriage from divorce.
FIND OUT IF HE OR SHE IS WILLING TO SAVE THE MARRIAGE
He or she could’ve filed for divorce after months of trying to fix things without any success. You probably weren’t aware of all his or her attempts but now he or she is fed up.
To make your marriage work your spouse should also be willing to fix his or her faults. You two need to humble yourselves to each other.
Be forgiving and compassionate to each other. Try to remember that your spouse is not your enemy. He or she may seem cruel and bitter but this is still someone you love.
Perhaps your spouse is not showing any signs of wanting to work things out. Do not give up. You can personally put in your effort then if he wants, he or she will catch up with you soon.
OWN UP TO YOUR FAULTS
Take responsibility for the things you did that may have put a strain on your marriage. Admit all of them in a remorseful manner.
Tell your spouse that you were wrong for deliberately not being there when he needs you the most and for the wrongs you did.
Talk to your spouse. Let he or she know how sorry you are for letting your marriage get to the point where it is now. Tell him or her that you will try hard to improve your contribution to the marriage.
Explain to your spouse how you didn’t act the way you did on purpose. Tell your spouse that you are sorry for being insensitive to his or her reactions.
Be specific. Let he or she know what exactly you are willing to change and how you are going to change it.
INVOLVE THE ELDERS
Marriage is about family. Although you may feel like your marital problems are only affecting you, they are affecting everyone related to both of you.
Some people in the family may be as concerned about your marriage as you are.
So let a concerned elderly member of the family intervene. She/he will offer you a life’s worth of wisdom especially if she/he is in an old committed marriage.
Let this be someone that your spouse respects and someone who has always had your marriage’s best interest at heart. This person’s opinion will stick in your husband’s/wife’s mind.
CONSIDER MARRIAGE COUNSELLING
Marriage counselors offer a great service. They experience marital problems on a day to day basis.
This means they know what to look out for in an unhappy marriage and they have tried and tested ways to repair such marriages.
Also, some people are more willing to open up to strangers so perhaps your husband or wife will open up to the counselor, expressing important details that you may have missed.
Should your husband or wife agree to marriage counseling then at least you’ll know that he is willing to repair the relationship.
Be cautiously honest in your sessions. Some things will only cause problems if spoken out loud.
Well if all of the above doesn’t work out for you or if you see that the situation need some forces. Real natural forces to save your marriage from divorce.
Then use the Wicca spell to bring back happens in your marriage. Follow the link to read more about it and see how perfectly it can save your marriage from divorce.
There is no perfect marriage but that does not mean that you shouldn’t fight to save yours from divorce. Wake up and fight for that man or woman that your heart loves.
That one you have spend half of your life with. You still need him or her to spend the rest of your life with.