Judging from experience it’s clear you are not sure what the real problem scaring you from talking to her is. Once you discover that it’s not rejection you are afraid of, you will realize how easy it is to go face to face with any woman.
If not rejection. Then what?
Well let’s say you have the bravery to go straight to her and say "hi", what then? You see the problem is you are scared of what to say next after saying hi. My advice would be not to tell her about your feeling on the first day you meet her; you don’t tell women how you feel about them before they are interested in you, more importantly before they are interested in talking to you.
Make her notice you, make her know that you exist, make her say “hey” to you the next time she sees you. When you get her to notice you, it becomes easy to go mambo jumbo bout how you feel about her.
Well how do you get her to notice you?
Give her a reason why she should stop whatever she is busy doing to listen to you. It’s easy to talk to any woman if you can give them a reason to listen to you. Reason as in “why should I stop what I am doing and listen to you”. People don’t want to be bothered unless whoever is bothering is interesting or has something of interest to say. Your challenge is to find something interesting that will give her a reason to leave whatever she is doing or busy thinking about to listen to you.
Women enjoy giving advises about relationships more importantly happy relationships. With that knowledge, let’s see how you can use it to your advantage.
You can start by creating a fictional story in which you would be stranded with great need for help. Because people never forget about times and people they offered help, use that knowledge to your advantage to make her notice you.
Create a fictional story about a friend of yours who is about to engage his 3month girlfriend, your friend has based his engagement decision on your suggestion. He wants your suggestion on whether if it’s a good idea to engage his girlfriend that he has only seen for 3 months.
Okay let’s try our luck. You see her standing somewhere, alone is best for starters. Confidently head up to her and ask.
"Hey Hi, am sorry this is random but am out of time and I need a saviour like right now. I saw you from that side and figured you would be able to help me on this".
(Don’t say your intention at this time you steel capturing her attention while outright to the point you are giving her a reason to listen to you).
Ask her; when is it a good time to engage? I mean when is it so soon to engage?
(At this time she will think it’s you getting engaged, it’s ok and don't let her know it’s not you as yet. remember we are trying to create your image in her that she will never forget you. Making it easy to start a conversation with her next time. She will probably be smiling, looking at you perhaps preparing questions for you. Listen to her question but at time don’t give her so many clues continual.
Ask again; is it a good idea to engage at three months? Look straight into her eyes when asking these questions.
Now let her ask questions too, probably questions that ask you who you are engaging. Now It’s time to make the reason to talk to you even more powerful.
Let her know it not you. No it’s not me, my friend has put me in a tough position, and he is basing his decision to engage his girlfriend on my suggestion. These guys are in deep love and everything is promising for them. he is on his way to me as we speak, I am scared what to say to him, his girlfriend seems to be the sweetest woman on earth, but if I tell him to carry on with the engagement, if thing don’t move well for him, I will blame myself for failing to play a part in my friend’s life when he needed me but again she is a sweet woman and her hopes are high now I don’t want to mess up what they have.
What can I do? At this point you have given her a good reason to talk to you. Women like giving relationship advices especially if the needed advise is for a good side of the relationship, At this point, she regards you as a responsible person, lovely, and in a company of responsible friends. She will never forget you, she might even ask you to seat somewhere so she can play a part in this sweet experience that is about to happen into another person’s life. Keep looking straight into her eyes as you talk.
End the conversation by setting yourself another chance to talk to her. Give praise to her advises, praise her smiles, and the most beautiful voice, looks or anything, ask her for her email address not cell phone number. Promise to see her soon to tell her about how you used her advices. On that note she will expect to speak to you the next time you meet because any one that gives an advice would eager to know if the advice made any impact to whoever needed it. Make all this so short. At this moment she knows you and it so easy to come up with another interesting strategy to get her to talk with you even more may be next time you start the conversation with what you did with her initial advice and what outcomes did the advice produce.
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